Celebrating our Volunteers: Meet Community Group Leader, Melia

My name is Melia Pillay (she/they), but most of my friends call me Val — short for Valerie, which is my middle name. (There’s a story behind this — happy to share it as an ice breaker.) I am an out and proud trans woman, living my best and most authentic life for the first time since birth — although it has taken over 35 years.

I was born in the vibrant lands of Trinidad & Tobago and have traversed a diverse journey through life. Although born in Trinidad & Tobago, I was raised in the enchanting landscapes of Guyana; my formative years were shaped by the experiences of attending primary and secondary school within this rich cultural tapestry. However, as fate would have it, my path led me back to my birthplace, Trinidad, during my late teens — a return that would mark the beginning of a transformative chapter in my life.

Running away from my true identity, I once harboured aspirations of becoming a pastor — a testament to my deep-rooted faith and spiritual inclination. However, as I embarked on this personal voyage of self-discovery, I gradually unearthed a profound realisation that transcended the boundaries of religious institutions. I came to embrace the concept of righteousness, finding solace in the pursuit of moral integrity and virtue, unbound by the confines of organised religion.

Armed with an insatiable thirst for knowledge and personal growth, I undertook a journey of educational attainment, earning multiple degrees that equipped me with a wealth of wisdom and expertise. In many ways, this was a means of hiding my authentic self from the world. Through education, love, and safety, I found my home in Scotland — where I now feel more peaceful and secure.

What inspired you to start volunteering with LGBT Health and Wellbeing?

The inspiration to start volunteering with LGBT Health and Wellbeing stemmed from my experience as a member of the Edinburgh Trans Women group. When the opportunity to become a group leader arose following Helen’s resignation, I felt compelled to step up. Recognising the challenges faced by the transgender community — particularly in a world that often marginalises us — I wanted to give back and support others.

As a trans woman of colour who has overcome significant trauma in childhood, I believe I can offer meaningful support to my peers. My goal is to advocate for a better life and equal opportunities for all trans and non-binary individuals, while fostering unity among our diverse voices.

What does your volunteering role involve?

As a group leader for the Edinburgh Trans Women group, my role involves coordinating activities and creating a safe space for all trans women through our monthly peer meetings. One of my favourite aspects is connecting with the ladies and hearing about their personal journeys.

Recently, the unity within our group has been particularly inspiring — especially in response to the Supreme Court ruling. Our community continues to grow, with members eager to share innovative ideas that benefit us all. This collaborative spirit makes our gatherings both meaningful and impactful.

Why is this work important to you?

Volunteering as the group leader for the Edinburgh Trans Women group is profoundly important to me, as it allows me to give back to a community that has shaped my identity. Our work is vital for the trans community, as it provides a safe space for connection, support, and empowerment, while also fostering visibility and advocacy within the broader LGBTQ+ community.

Personally, volunteering has had a transformative impact on me. It has deepened my sense of purpose, strengthened my resilience, and reinforced the importance of solidarity. Being part of this collective effort not only uplifts my peers but also enriches my own journey — reminding me that, together, we can create meaningful change.

What does LGBT Health and Wellbeing mean to you?

LGBT Health and Wellbeing holds deep significance for me as a trans woman, as it represents a sanctuary of support, understanding, and empowerment for individuals like myself. The mission of the organisation embodies a spirit of inclusivity, promoting not only physical health but also emotional and mental wellbeing for the LGBTQ+ community.

What makes this organisation truly special is its commitment to fostering a safe environment where all voices are heard and valued, encouraging collaboration and resilience among its members. Through its initiatives, LGBT Health and Wellbeing champions the belief that everyone deserves to live authentically and thrive — helping to create a more equitable society for all.

What would you say to someone thinking about volunteering?

To someone considering volunteering with LGBT Health and Wellbeing, I would say — take the leap! Your unique experiences and perspectives can make a meaningful impact within the community. Don’t hesitate to share your voice and ideas; every contribution truly matters.

My advice is to approach this opportunity with an open heart and a willingness to learn from others. One of the most enjoyable aspects of being part of the LGBT Health and Wellbeing volunteer team is the sense of camaraderie and shared purpose. Together, we create a supportive environment that uplifts one another, fosters growth, and drives positive change.

Volunteering here not only enriches the lives of those we serve, but also deepens our own connections and understanding within the community.